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There Is Nothing Wrong With Asking For Help

January 15, 2015 @ 22:55 By Gavin Webber 12 Comments

We all want the satisfaction of doing things ourselves, but sometimes we need help.  However, many of us find it difficult to ask.  Let me tell you something.

STOP trying to be Superman or Superwoman and start asking for help.

You can’t do it all yourself.  Honestly, I know, because I am speaking from years of experience.  There’s nothing wrong with asking for help.

There is no way I could have built all the garden beds around here or let alone filled them with the layers of cardboard, straw, and compost.  NO FREAKING WAY.  It would have taken me a month of Sundays.  Thankfully I asked Adam, Megan, Amy, and Kim to give me a hand and they kind of volunteered to help me out over a few very wet weekends back in March and April 2007.  They were happy days, excellent character building exercises, and best of all; we had fun.

Nothing wrong with asking for help.  Veggie Patch circa May 2007

Veggie Patch circa May 2007

Another example was building our chook house.  Every single family member helped to make it.  Amy and Megan dug post holes (begrudgingly as they were teenagers at the time) for the initial chicken run.  Adam and I built the first chicken enclosure and coop, and Ben helped me to paint the coop.  It was a family affair, and once again, I asked for help and people joined in and had fun.

Nothing wrong with asking for help.  Painting the first chook house circa June 2008

Painting the first chook house circa June 2008

My final example is our Backyard Clay Oven.  This project was certainly not finished in a day.  It took many weekends of hard graft to get the oven completed.  Sure, I built the plinth of breeze block (cinder blocks), but there was no way I could have lifted the four very heavy slabs that formed the base with my friend David’s help.  Nor could I have finished the first layer of cob by myself in two hours.  The members of the Melton Sustainable Living Group helped out during a clay oven workshop that I held and everyone pitched in.  Once the first layer was on, the other four were a breeze, even though it took me another two months to complete it, and that was with help from my family.

Nothing wrong with asking for help.  Cob Oven Firing 4th layer

Cob Oven Firing 4th layer with Megan and Jake circa Sept 2011

As you can see, all of the projects I have completed around our Suburban Food Farm have not been singular tasks.  I am not Superman, and neither is anyone else I know.

Don’t be scared to ask for help anytime during your own sustainable living journey, because my friends, that is what makes it interesting and fun.  Team work with others, sharing the joy of a completed project, and being able to use the fruits of the joint labour with all your friends for a very long time.

In reality, this blog has not been about my sustainable living journey, but the journey of every single person that has helped me along the path.  Every. Single. Person.  And for that, I thank you one and all including every reader of this blog.  You have also been on my journey with me, helping me keep motivated via emails and comments, and inspiring me to try out new things, ideas, and ways of thinking.

So reach out and ask someone to help with your next project.  You may be surprised at their response, because everyone knows that sustainable living projects are the best fun!

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TGoG Podcast 097 – Personal Time Management

January 14, 2015 @ 22:30 By Gavin Webber 1 Comment

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Personal Time ManagementDuring this episode I share all the tips and tricks that I have learnt over the years to take charge of my personal time and to live a life with purpose.

I cover off the following topics for Personal Time Management;

  • Setting SMART goals
  • Planning ahead, doing specific tasks on certain days
  • Keep a diary/planner (I use an online calendar)
  • Early to bed, Early to rise
  • Do things when you know are most effective (I’m a morning person)
  • Regular exercise
  • Minimal screen time
  • Handling each task once, and do one task at a time.
  • Write a to do list, prioritise the list, but be realistic
  • Keep a journal or blog in able to reflect back at past achievements

So that’s how I cram so much into my day and week and still manage to deliver the goods at work, home, and with my family.  I hope you take the time to listen and learn a few tips and tricks on how to manage your own personal time better.

If you liked the episode, please feel free to leave a comment or even pop over to iTunes using the button under the player and leave a review and rating to help build the shows profile.  I would be eternally grateful!

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TGoG Podcast 088 – Sleepwalking Into The Future

October 29, 2014 @ 22:07 By Gavin Webber 9 Comments

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Sleepwalking into the future.  These are thoughts that have been mulling around in my head for quite a few years.  I have finally been able to put it down coherently so that I can share it with you today.

As this episode was read from notes I have a transcript for you to read.


 

Sleepwalking into the future

We live in the age of abundant energy, and we have a lot to be thankful for, but for how much longer, and what are we doing about it?

Humanity has reached a stage in its development where everything we now have is reliant on a source of cheap energy, in the form of fossil fuels. We have transportation that would shock an early 20th century person, as we can get from point A to point B with a minimum of fuss and travel distances in time-frames that would be unheard of only 50 years ago.

Way back then, only the rich could afford to fly, and the rest of us were stuck on the ground or traveled vast distances slowly via the oceans. However, whilst on the ground we spent this precious resource building roads and freeways that have cut the travelling time between cities in half (except for the odd traffic jam).

We have built magnificent cities from steel, concrete and glass (with the aid of oil) that glow in the night that can be seen from space. These cities house many millions of people throughout the world and consume resources from neighboring countryside.

We have a medical procedures that can replace most parts of the body when they get diseased or worn out, except for the human brain, but I am sure we are working on that as well. We live longer than any other time in human history and have the biggest population that increases by 1,000,000,000 people every 25 years.

All because of cheap energy in the form of oil and other fossil fuels.

So, on the down side, at this very moment we are on a plateau of energy production. Our demand for energy is now outstripping supply, and this demand grows with every single human born into existence. Prices rise because of supply shortages, and this in turn continues to feed the woes of the continuing economic crisis which is build on continuous upward growth.

However, with all fossil fuels and natural resources being of finite supply, our economic system is bashing up against natural hard limits. You cannot have a system that is reliant on growth when there is only so much of everything. You cannot change the laws of physics.

Not only fossil fuels are depleting, but things like fresh water with depletion in the form of ancient aquifers, phosphates for fertilization, arable land to grow food on, and global fish stocks.

We do not seem to be awake to the fact that many of the things we take for granted are depleting rapidly, we have no plan to implement a scalable replacement for our energy needs, which drives all other human activities.

Even with all our cleverness, much of humanity lacks the foresight to plan for a future with less of everything. Our population has grown alongside of energy growth, because we have been able to produce abundant surpluses of food. But only in some parts of the world. Over 5/7th of our species do not have a regular meal on the table, or access to clean drinking water.

Recent events do not fill me with joy or hope. Our governments will continue to talk until 2015, and then maybe do something serious about greenhouse gas emissions in 2020. We will be committed to at least 3 and a half degrees Centigrade hotter world in 2100. That is totally unpredictable.

It will only get hotter after that. This is already happening now, in our own lifetimes. Surely we can do better than this?

Now that we have hit the 7,000,000,000 mark in population, and that we are constrained by natures hard limits, and the threat of environmental disaster in the form of a changing climate, what are we to do? I ask myself this question every day, and wonder often ‘what happens next?’ How are we to cut emissions by 50-80% by 2050, and reduce our dependence on fossil fuels if it is predicted that the human population will be at 9 billion?

More people means more emissions and more resources. I believe that we will be too worried about feeding ourselves, rather than trying to stabilize the climate!

So many unanswered questions, and with little visible action from world leaders and governments, I am afraid I cannot think of any other outcome except a train-wreck. I may be wrong, but I think our civilization is moving too fast on the rails to slow down in time. But think of this train-wreck happening in slow motion.

We are at overshoot, and the only other result is a long slow decline. All because we have delayed action on alternative energy, changing our economic system, mitigating climate change, and population overshoot to feed economic growth and to fatten someones wallet. Whatever happens from now on in, it will not be pretty.

Look, I didn’t mean to bring everyone down, but we do live in troubled times. It is just that many of us cannot connect the dots, or even want to talk about these big issues. We only have one habitable planet in this neck of the Universe, so we have to clean up the mess we made. What is needed is a call to arms, and where we start talking about these issues on a daily basis. The more we talk about it, the more thinking we will do, and we may even come up with some real solutions for the climate or an effective way to power-down during energy descent.

However, until such time that we really start talking seriously, we will just keep things as business as usual. The only problem is that business is starting to get bad!  We are sleepwalking into the future.

I will leave you with this thought

Vision without Action is merely a dream, and
Action without Vision just passes the time, however,
Vision with Action can change the world!

 

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